Being as charitable as I can be to Rob, he's gradually chosen to push away everyone in his life and his fanbase over the course of years, in really aggressive and hostile ways
It's the result of unchecked hard drug use exacerbating some mental illness problems he has, which is where I think you can paint him as being a little sympathetic
Issue is that the drugs also burnt his mind, and he lost a lot of his creative abilities and work ethic, which I think became a big point of frustration for him
Even URealms, when he was early to the DND/ttrpg roleplay craze, he tried to push his viewers off-site and made the streams hard for casual viewers to find
yall blame the drugs too much sometimes, he is just a selfish asshole, very unlucky, and at this point used to just cleaning slate when it comes to his content and audience
again, the drugs fucked him up, were indeed the fuel to almost every bad decision for the x years of his career he was on them. but he was capable of bad decisions, manipulativeness, assholeary, etc. before and after