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Only talked about the possible past.

Which, can never be undone.

the reason that shes hard working is why im defending her

is does not matter her past actions

So it's immoral to talk about the past, possibly negative, actions of someone if they're now clean and hard working?

yes

Even if that negetive thing is as minor as perhaps theyve smoked some weed once?

That's illogical.

This isn't the circumstance where people would be strictly logical

Because it's family gent?

Maybe we'll setup a live debate later!

because its someone who had a bad past and dont want people to be referred to in the present

the past stays in the past

The past can't be changed or forgotten, it's not like I'm talking about anything serious either.

Forgetting and completely forgoing the past and ignoring it because it might "hurt them" is stupid.

All I did was mention a possibility, which has no relation to the "bad past" you mention.

Have you ever watched some of the bioncles movies?

you said, your mom probably did drugs too, no remorse, if my mom read that i can guaranteed she would be abit sad

One of them has a good section about this kinda stuff.

Oh well? If it's her past, its her past.

Acceptance is very important.

most people cant max

Just hiding it and putting it away is moronic.

my mother genuinely hates her past

and i mean hate

and?

it was so bad she cant accept it fully

So I can't list something she MIGHT of done, without you knowing, because it DEMEANS HER, and to her would of brought up her past (possibly) and you want to protect her from that because she's hard working.

there is scars

Am I correct?

its more then hard working but i wish for someone not to give her past, or make rumors

It's not the creation of a rumor if it was just a possible idea.

well please dont

shes happier

Why?

It doesn't effect her.

She doesn't read these chats.

Do you show them to her?

how would you know what affects her max?

Does she read all your chats?

and no, but i hate someone talking bad

Do you believe in universal emotions and such retardism?

"What's put out in the universe happens..."

or whatever mumbo jumbo

If not- then it doesn't effect her.

Unless it somehow puts you in such a bad mood you take it out on her.

why on earth would i put my mothers problems on her?

I'm stating possible ways what I say here could effect her.

So unless she reads this place, you believe in universal emotions, or you take anger from this out on her.

It does not.