general

and by changed i mean my mother changed from drinking and moved on

so i refuse for someone to call her out

So basically you take the aggressive snipey tone with everyone, but because xbrox doesn't do the back and forth like the rest of us do it just devolves into this mess

See that clarafies thigns more, but it still doesn't make the previous sentence make anymore more sense

Of course gent

In this server I'm not going to treat someone different because it hurts their feelings or makes them not happy. I don't directly go attacking people, but I'm not going to change how I act.

ill say this one more time. ^^if she was or not, i still dont want her to be referred that way in her past**

xbrox that wasnt the sentence ive been refering to

this mess was https://i.imgur.com/JRJKEr3.png

ignoring the your being wrong, it actually didnt make sense

i never asked if she did drugs in the past

okay but

what does that have to do with you asking

what

Unless you mean you didnt ask so you dont know

i dont know, but it doesnt matter that i dont know

Which is a, "You're incorrect because it's not disproven or proven" statement

im not telling you if you correct or incorrect, im saying i wont allow my hard working mother to be called out by a random discord member

"Called out" being a possible past action she could of done?

yes

I don't really see that as calling her out

It's just a theory I had

well dont have a theory about my mother

Nor does it dis-represent or demean her current nature

I never once demeaned her current, as you put it, hard working nature.

Only talked about the possible past.

Which, can never be undone.

the reason that shes hard working is why im defending her

is does not matter her past actions

So it's immoral to talk about the past, possibly negative, actions of someone if they're now clean and hard working?

yes

Even if that negetive thing is as minor as perhaps theyve smoked some weed once?

That's illogical.

This isn't the circumstance where people would be strictly logical

Because it's family gent?

Maybe we'll setup a live debate later!

because its someone who had a bad past and dont want people to be referred to in the present

the past stays in the past

The past can't be changed or forgotten, it's not like I'm talking about anything serious either.

Forgetting and completely forgoing the past and ignoring it because it might "hurt them" is stupid.

Have you ever watched some of the bioncles movies?

you said, your mom probably did drugs too, no remorse, if my mom read that i can guaranteed she would be abit sad

One of them has a good section about this kinda stuff.

Oh well? If it's her past, its her past.

Acceptance is very important.

most people cant max

Just hiding it and putting it away is moronic.

my mother genuinely hates her past

and i mean hate

and?

it was so bad she cant accept it fully

So I can't list something she MIGHT of done, without you knowing, because it DEMEANS HER, and to her would of brought up her past (possibly) and you want to protect her from that because she's hard working.

there is scars

Am I correct?

its more then hard working but i wish for someone not to give her past, or make rumors

It's not the creation of a rumor if it was just a possible idea.

well please dont

shes happier

Why?

It doesn't effect her.

She doesn't read these chats.

Do you show them to her?

how would you know what affects her max?

Does she read all your chats?

and no, but i hate someone talking bad

Do you believe in universal emotions and such retardism?

"What's put out in the universe happens..."

or whatever mumbo jumbo

If not- then it doesn't effect her.

Unless it somehow puts you in such a bad mood you take it out on her.

why on earth would i put my mothers problems on her?

I'm stating possible ways what I say here could effect her.

So unless she reads this place, you believe in universal emotions, or you take anger from this out on her.

It does not.

it effects me then, im mad that a stranger is talking about possibilities about her past actions because of what my father did

and?

That's this server.

People make eachother mad and make fun of them all the time.

Oh well?

and im saying, dont